Anyone wana help me with a confusing girl? pls?

all i can say about this is that you are the one confusing this girl, and making yourself upset, by not asking this girl to be your g/f, and date her, and your making it appear that you are mean, because you allow her to trust you enough to be comfortable to rest her weary head, and then you don't make it official that she is your g/f..and so she is second guessing all of this, and thinks it is because you are not really liking her this way, because you have not said so with words, and made sure she knows the way you feel, and she is insecure over it, and therefore goes out with other guys, and guess what, it doesn't work because she doesn't have the friendship with them that she does with you, so take the lead like you should, and fix it..and you too will be much happier than you both are now..k?